Matching
Many people have the mistaken notion that since you pay for the service, an endless string of candidates must queue up for your selection. If he/she doesn’t tickle your fancy, NEXT !!! Unfortunately, harsh reality begs to differ. For starters, you may be well advised to put away your long list of criteria. Just keep an open mind, and remember, however excellent your own criteria might be, those might neither be what the other person needs nor seeks !! “Matching” isn’t about whom you want, but whom you want who also wants you !
In a world of possibilities, being overly discerning only curtails opportunities. Instead, one should seize the reins of fate and maximize every chance that comes your way. Given half a chance, learn to maximize and multiply, turning “half” into multiples. That’s the only winning formula.